7 hours ago
@simonegetstied and I don’t often have visitors when W/we tie, the lives W/we have outside of rope don’t overlap much. Only when I bring folx around does simone share their kink with friends (outside of the “classroom” setting). simone expressed recently wanting to connect more with people around kink and rope, more so maybe that the friends they have and are around daily be integrated in some way. This has come up for Me and sub too- wanting to have friends that are doing what W/we are doing (like D/s or rope) and feeling community. simone even asked if there was a secret way to out oneself without accidentally doing it to a vanilla person. Like saying your friends with Bill but the kinky version. Does anyone know?
Inviting simone’s close friend @b_r_a_d_h_a_b_i_t_s over for a night of rope seemed like the merging of two lives simone lives. I felt proud of them to take this step to be inclusive, and honored simone felt safe to share O/our dynamic with someone else. I encourage simone to do more of this, I will support them however they need. It was also a pleasure to be around brad, their enthusiasm for rope and photography was refreshing.
Queer Qoven for Me is how I’m creating My community. I Am trying to envision a strong foundation of rope friends so that My two lives merge. So that My holidays and special occasions are My queers and My rope fam. It won’t happen over night, but it will happen slowly over time. The kink/rope community around Me today is tenfold what it was a year ago and I can predict twentyfold a year from now. To those of Y/you around Me thank you for being My F/family 💙
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