shareitall Photos & Videos

5 days ago

The next one was written last spring for someone then very special. I’m now the happiest ever living in Bondi and wish all the best for him. . . Even if I usually share a lot of things and thoughts in instagram, I had a little debate in my mind if I should share this one. But as I’m a bit unsure to publish this I thought it might help someone else in the similar situation that I was last spring. . . So here we go: . . . I don’t want to admit this I don’t want to do this But This is a Thank you and Goodbye . . Thank you for my partner For all the shared moments Thank you for the laughs All the hugs and kisses All the strokes and talks . . Goodbye When you are not a hun in my phone anymore Goodbye When our song doesn’t hurt anymore Goodbye when half of the closet is empty . . After the tears and heartbreak I will still remember you as my love My great love Love that made me sleep easier Love so strong it made my heart hurt Love that gave me strength and joy . . Strength on our journey: Struggle through penniless times Struggle through new cities and jobs Strength to get where we are now . . All those hugs after the countless storms All that caring and passion we shared The jokes, adventures and half pillows Stroking your hair in the dawn High in love on the living room floor . . I don’t want to do this But you have a new life in front of you As I do too It will be easier to breathe For both of us I know it and you do too . . Thank you and goodbye With tears in my eyes Forcing a little smile I say thank you for the memories I kiss goodbye I will remember you with a warm little smile And I hope eventually you will remember me with a smile too . . . Take one last glance to the past..🌞 . #breakup #lyrics #still #friends #lyricsaija #smile #love #life #instadaily #thoughts #poem #strenght #swimsuit #beach #life #personal #shareitall #helpothers #blonde #girl #bereal #now #again #happy

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2 weeks ago

I COULD NOT DO A TRICEP PUSH-UP 8 WEEKS AGO!!!! Now this is my LAST round of the burnout today and had already done 240 reps of shoulder and arm lifts plus 2 rounds of burnout before this one! PROGRESS PEOPLE!!! LIIFT4 is making me STRONG 💪🏻! Come listen to my journey tonight, see my results from this 8 week program and learn more about healthy fitness and nutrition lifestyles!!! Message me for the link!!! #strong #liift4 #shareitall #progress #workhard #lifeweights

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4 weeks ago

Last Monday's #OOTD is deceptive. It looks well put together (Pic 1) but depending on how I stand or move, you can see the issue (pic 2)..the #OldNavy skirt is a size too big and is rather boxy (though it's more comfy to move in & has stretch) and it's tricky to wear one with a #TheLimited top untucked but I didn't care. I threw this blazer from #TheLimited over it so I didn't have to. But you wouldn't know this from looking at me. And depending on your viewpoint, you may not have even noticed. (But I do cringe at the boxy silhouette in pic 2!) Maybe you should have just noticed my blue and green mix and how my flats even matched (without even wondering why i didn't wear heels). You see, nothing's perfect. No one is perfect. You not only need to accept things, but own it. Make of it the best you can. I'm ok with not being a 10 everyday. I'm just happy if I look somewhat decent and am still comfortable. #dailyoutfit #fashionlog #wearwhatyouown #ownwhatyouwear #shareitall #shareyoursuccessesandfailures #betransparent

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1 month ago

When you sit down to write Your mind takes over Whatever that means You’re at the will of your thoughts Nothing you can do to stop it Share the dark Share the good Share the sadness Share the celebrations Just keep writing. #amgilbert #amgilbertpoetry

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1 month ago

Paige Throgmorton Wright and I have made a pact to stay on track with our weight loss journeys. They’re different journeys with different goals, but what do we have in common?? Tune in tonight to find out! There may be a giveaway involved just so you know! #weightloss #energy #journey #shareitall #teamwork

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1 month ago

Happy Anniversary to these two cuties. They lived, loved and laughed out loud all day long. Sarah's nose would crinkle and Lucas would look adoringly at his new wife. And I loved every minute I spent with them on their wedding day. They made me feel so welcome all day long that I truly felt as though I was their friend documenting their wedding. #shannonmayphotography #smpweddings @algonquinstandrews #algonquinweddings #paperanniversary #livelovelaugh #ido #newlyweds #shotwithlove #shareitall @weddingsnb

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2 months ago

Look at my wonderful, little man giggling away during tummy time this morning. Isn’t my life as a mum just perfect? It’s insta perfect, not real life perfect. Motherhood is hard, parenting is hard. Like with so much in life it isn’t what it appears on social media. We share the beautiful, joy filled moments because those are the moments that are precious. Scrolling through at 3am because our baby is awake and we feel like a horrible mum, or because our anxiety is up about the way we look, or because we have insomnia from worrying about the bullying can make everything seem bleaker. Everyone else’s life is perfect. Mine’s not. No ones is. I feel completely shattered today, despite getting five and a half hours sleep last night. In Mum world that much sleep is the dream, let alone that much sleep in one go. Yet still I’m so tired it is making me nauseous. My perfect little boy has been shouting at me since 1.30 this afternoon, shouting or feeding. Nothing seems to calm him. All I want is for my poor little man to be happy. I’m a good mum doing a hard job. Your body is strong and beautiful whatever shape it is. It is not you that has the problem, it those that choose to pick on you. Whatever you are seeing that looks perfect, that looks like what you don’t have.....it’s only half a story. Share the good, the bad and the ugly. Share your joys and your struggles. If we all do that the world is a kinder, more gentle place for us all. #instalife #reallife #shareitall #instaperfect #notalwaysperfect #honestinsta #honestinstagram #mumlife #mytribe #parenting #motherhood #babyboy #thegoodthebadtheugly #perfectnotperfect #truth

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2 months ago

Today's LIVE broadcast 102.9fm Stouffville on Whistlefm.com Rerun 7am Sunday July 15, 2018. Or get podcast after Friday July 13, 2018. from stbradio.ca or SharingTheBurden.ca

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2 months ago

Funny how a picture doesn't quite tell the whole truth. This was me a year ago, playing around with the camera. I was on a weekend away with my husband in an amazingly beautiful location but feeling quite lonely and unhappy. I'm not sure you could tell that from this picture and to be honest I really like this one of me, but it didn't show my truth at the time; it showed what I wanted to see, and what I wanted others to see. Today, a year later I'm seeing a lot of lovely photos of my friend online, and I know many of them are going through tough times - each circumstance unique and each person putting on a brave face. To all those struggling, please don't suffer in silence and hide behind the mask any longer. Please, ask for help. Talk to someone. Find your voice. Use your resources. Be honest with yourself. Feel your feelings without guilt. Know that this too shall pass. Let's help each other. Let's share all of our sides and not just the ones that feel or look nice. Let's know that we are not alone. Let's know that without the darkness there is no light and that each has its time and place. This too shall pass and it will pass sooner if we are honest with ourselves and let others in to share, to help, to love and be loved. #flashbacks #shareitall #unapologeticallyme #thistooshallpass #askforhelp #helpanothermother #beingheardnotfixed #putdownthemask #noonesperfect #lifelessons

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2 months ago

É incrível pensar na internet nos seus primórdios e como tudo está hoje, com o fácil e constante compartilhamento de informação. Mas ainda podemos (e vamos) muito mais longe. Let's #shareitall. 🛫✨

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2 months ago

I look at this picture and I feel a little bit sick inside. You see I know how many men and so on are in here and how much they need what we have. Folks if there's any way you can help sharing the burden to share who we are and what we do and how we come alongside and support people, we would be most appreciative. These institutions truly need what we have and inmates around the world immediately need our sincere care and recognition of whom each is! Can you and will you help SharingTheBurden.ca and stbradio.ca reach all those in need of hope and love, wherever and in whatever institution they happen to be? #sharingiscaring #sharingburden #sharingthelove #share #shareitall #sharingthelove #sharing #google #love #lovegoogle #hopeburden #worldwide #worldwidesharing

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2 months ago

💕vulnerable.share 💕 Lately I’ve been feeling into my aloneness. Though I have many sweet companions on this Earth, (i.e. the elements and plants) I find myself craving more friendship in my Life. I have many sweet friends, but somehow I feel so distant from them. I’m finding myself grieving relationships that have long passed, especially with friends from my hometown, or other places I used to live, specifically on the East Coast. I guess it’s a choice I made, to move across the country and away from those companions. There are people who haven’t reached out to me in years that I still think about daily. Am I stuck? Is that normal? Is anything normal? What does that word even mean, anyways. I just love my dear friends, even if we haven’t spoke in years. I’m learning how to let go. I’m learning how to be at peace with each moment, even if many of those moments may appear as aloneness. I know I’m truly never alone. I’m always here with the Great Spirit of Love. And I long for more human connection, too. I long to feel connected to others in a meaningful way. I apologize to those in my life that I haven’t kept in touch with, knowing the pain that can come with such detachment. Is that the trick? Stay so supremely detached as not to have these feelings? Well, I’m not about to ditch these feelings, I’m just being with them. Right now, loneliness is here, and that’s ok. I can be with this. I can feel this deeply. I can mourn and grieve this as much as it needs to be. I’m just getting comfortable with my own cycles, and allowing myself to feel what is here. The truth is I’ve been feeling lonely for many years, even when surrounded by community. Perhaps I’m longing for greater communion with God. I’m really just exploring. I’m surely not alone in this exploration. How are you all doing with managing aloneness/loneliness? I’m so curious. Thanks for reading and allowing my humanness to be here. So vulnerable. Tending to this heart is a full time job, and I’m the only qualified one who can fulfill this task. Giving thanks for the incredible joy that fills my heart even amidst the suffering of seeming separation, and grateful for an avenue to express. 💦 #soveryhuman

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3 months ago

Social media has a way of protesting our lives in such a beautiful state doesn’t it? The highlight reel... try as we might sometimes it still gets stuck there. This picture was taken by my husband last night after an hour mosh of Ruby completely resisting bed, struggling wirh how things feel.. not being able to fall asleep.. not knowing what she wanted and needed. Dude! Transitions are hard and I knew coming back from my trip it would be but I wS running on fumes already and to say my patience was thin was an understatement. Instead of taking the time to sit with her and work with her on what she needed in that moment I got irritated that she wasn’t working on my timeline.. because I was so freakin tired. Towards the end I came to my senses, took a deep breathe and instead of fighting the meltdown walked into it and worked through it with her, took me long enough ❤️ Patience ESPECIALLY when I am exhausted is not an area I am fully strong in, and my kids continue to teach me about where I can grow. They give me grace and forgiveness in the areas I fail... man😭 what a beautiful representation of what Christ does for us on a daily basis. I pray that my kids see that I am able to say I’m sorry, ask for forgiveness and learn from my shortcomings as they grow. That they realize I am learning through this whole process as well❤️ As you can see we ended well. She got what she needed and so did I ❤️ #mommingainteasy #sensoryprocessingdisorder #transitionsarehard #workingmama #shareitall #notjustthehighlightreel #youwithme

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3 months ago

An intimate marriage is one in which the couple connects physically and emotionally. Intimacy is the unique component of a marriage that separates it from any other relationship. It is the unique ingredient that will keep your marriage thriving. When God created Adam he was alone but we can say he wasn't exactly lonely. The beasts of the field weren't wild so he must have got some form of company from them. However Adam was created with a structure similar to that of the animals that demanded intimacy. He must have looked at nature and yearned for connection with his own kind. He was also a sexual being that wasn't sexually active. Some of us have good friends and families yet we chose to marry because we cannot be intimate with them. To intimacy we added raising a family, financial stability, status upgrade, etc. When issues or problems arise from the extras we've added, they always affect or eat deep into our intimacy. Marriage was designed by God to be fuelled by openness and unconditional love. Yet many of us got married conditionally. We made the decision based on some factors. We considered size, educational status, romantic love, morals, etc. The intimacy that a marriage union brings is supposed to correct the anomaly of the conditional love we know and are used to. When you promised to have and to hold, it stated your desire to connect emotionally and physically; to be naked and not ashamed. As you connect with your wife by sharing without reservation, trusting, allowing yourself to be vulnerable with her, opening up your heart to give and receive great sex; it leads you back into God's will - unconditional love founded on true intimacy. You are to get to know her deeply as she gets to know you, and become her safe place. All these can only be achieved when there is an understanding that this (intimacy) is the essence of your marriage. Focus of getting intimate with your wife. Don't hold back when your wife wants to know things about you, seek to create a foundation of trust for your marriage, listen to her and do whatever she tells you to do in getting intimate with her. Intimacy is the bedrock of your marriage. Rock that bed bro and rock her heart.✌

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3 months ago

Wow!! I had the pleasure of spending time with Daniel Mason Jones, Jody and their incredible team @musesalonandspa in Atlanta. His shadow project is on point and their success is a reflection of their hard work, passion, humility and kindness. I highly recommend any stylist looking to lift themselves and our industry to reach out to be a part of this amazing program!! Thank you guys for everything 🙏

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3 months ago

Welp! I’ve made the decision I start sharing my weight loss journey! No more private account. I’m super excited to share my favorite products and workouts and maybe, just maybe, help someone find their inspiration! #weightloss #shareitall #fitgirl

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3 months ago

Our Album Cover. aka Family Photo.

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4 months ago

Regrann from @shekinahjayde - This is #worth #acknowledging...we are made up of #darkness and #light , some of our #greatest #breakthroughs come from our #journey into the #underworld , I will not be #shamed #anymore just because I #choose to #seeitall and #shareitall , #spiritualbypassing and #falsepositivity can #create #deepwounds as well... #beauthentic #feelitall #beitall #embraceitall and don’t be #afraidofthedark it is all a part of the #journey 😱🤗😍💖 - #regrann

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4 months ago

Sunday morning #vibes 😌🎶 First time @taviaofficial and I performing our #originalsong from @judystakee #songwritingworkshop #shareitall #thehotelcafe 🙌🏼 You know you’ve got a good one when the bass amp blows during your song! Watch the whole song by swiping ⬅️ and let me know if you 💜 in the comments 🙏🏼😍 #acousticguitar Thank you to everyone who came to the show esp. @casey_melomaniac #grammycampla @cookiebakermusic & @sleepingpoliceman 🌟 #judystakee @grammymuseum & #songwriting #collabs have been so amazing!!

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4 months ago

I tried to pick the most ridiculous cover photo for this video! Haha! I think I succeeded! 5 random things about me! This Rabbit Hole course has got me wanting to share #allthethings I mentioned the 100 things list in a rtv a few days ago and now it's moved to 500! Working on finishing that up today but @espimarinovicmansi started this little 5 random things video the other day in an effort to encourage people to just share and not give a fuck and just be themselves. And a lot of fellow Rabbit Holers have jumped on board. It's been a lot of fun to watch! So I figured since I had 3 non-Rabbit holers ( @ryanorrico cult members 😂) make random talking videos this week because seeing mine encouraged them to want to share more that maybe this would encourage YOU to share 5 things about yourself, I wanna hear them! So if you're not too chicken shit, do it, tag me so I make sure to see it! And Happy Friday Friends, let's kick some ass! #randomtalkingvideo #rtv #fridaymotivation #5things #shareitall #quithiding #lettheworldseeyou #iseeyou #bullshitrules #religion #mexicanfood #love #rabbithole #idareyou

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4 months ago

People seem to think once you turn over your life of Jesus and IF your fortunate enough to receive Grace from God that your on EASY STREET AND LIFE becomes HUNKY DORY!!! But GUESS WHAT..... NO-NO-NO-NO-NO!!! It's FAR FROM IT!! Do you think JESUS was on "EASY STREET"??? Neck No....This is when the RUBBER MEETS THE ROAD!!! YOU have to PAY IT FORWARD. YOU will be CHALLENGED, PRODDED, PICKED APART, MESSED WITH AND PUT DOWN.....ALL BY the "Haters" and the "Pillagers" sent by Satan. And remember....Satan's SNEAKY with it. You will have choices to make that may not be popular with that crowd (and in most cases you'll be outnumbered)!! You have to use the Wisdom You have accumulated and "Do The Right Things"!!! Share that Grace with those around you (even if you think it's not deserved). I pray to God to give me more blessings so that I can GIVE MORE. You can't ask for more and hoard it. As the Bible says, you have to "Give Until Your Empty"!!! Thank You for the Reminder @BishopJakes #Grace #GiveBack #GiveEverything #EmptyYourself #PraiseHim #TrustHim #BelieveHim #Grace #ShareItAll #TDJakes

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4 months ago

I am always thinking of ways to spice up my FB page or Instagram account. I should say I am always OVER thinking. Are people sick of my sweaty selfies after class? Are my Instastories boring and lame? Do I say "BOOM" too much? Is my love of fitness annoying to others?? Last night I was thinking what big thing I could do to change it and entice more people to get on my health and fitness train. I was checking out other peoples posts when I stumbled upon lots of Bon Jovi posts. Naturally, I had to scroll through all things JBJ. Thats when this hit me.... This man has been rocking and rolling for 30 plus years. I can remember some of the first posters on my wall are of him with his hands in the air and that crazy rockstar face. Whats my point?? That is JBJ's constant. His signature move or look. Music and rocking out are his love, his passion. Just like health and fitness are mine. So. Take the selfie. Post the picture. Share your passion. Stop over thinking. And put your hands in the air like you just don't care - just like Jon Bon Jovi. Because it NEVER gets old. #findyourpassion #bonjovilover #bonjovi #focus #handsintheair #justdoyou #takethepicture #shareitall

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4 months ago

Soooo, I knew going into my wkend that we were having a fellowship potluck after church (yesterday). I told myself that was gonna be my cheat meal. Just being real & transparent w/ y’all, most of the time when I know a cheat meals coming...it ends up being almost a complete cheat day!!! 😏 And then today, my nutrition schedule got a little off just because of timing and my school plans: did not eat wrong, just the timing was off. Days like these happen! It’s part of the balance!! I am being a little more lenient now than I was during 80DO but still keeping a close eye 👁 Nutrition is as vital to a persons life as much (if not more) as daily exercise &/or just staying active! It’s such a part of my life now that when I do have those days of “too many hot dogs/hamburgers” & a battle of “the bulge” which comes after #bloating I feel like crap!! My mind also goes to worrying about what others may think 💭 being judgey, I know that’s a bunch of hog-wash but it’s seriously something I struggle with mentally. Good days & bad days tho, it truly is about the effort. Not About Perfection!! I put the effort in DAILY to better myself & take care of my body. Fellow supporters remind me that one I am is consistent. That much is true 🙂 I am consistent with my journey and that’s where the change happens. Better Yourself. Stay the course. Ups and downs come with the job. That’s just how it goes. What keeps you from continuing.....Giving Up!!! #dontdoit #dontgiveup #mondaysmojo #totalbodychisel #10minabchisel #mondaymotivation #beachbody #notplanningacheatmeal #haha #healthylifestyle #myjourney #thestruggles #thevictories #shareitall

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4 months ago

UNFILTERED & UNAPOLOGETIC . What if you said all the things you mean? ACTUALLY mean… Like, ALL the things? Not just the things that are kind of scary or a bit embarrassing. A bit taboo. . There are things that I write down for myself, that I wouldn’t DARE share. And then, there are things that I THINK, that I wouldn’t even dare write down (for myself). And then, there are things that I don’t even want to THINK ABOUT, or work through, because really… If I were to admit THOSE things… What if. What the fuck if… . Something I’m struggling to work through at the moment, is WHERE I DRAW THE LINE... . How much of what’s going on for me, do I want to share and feel a responsibility in sharing, and how much do I get to keep? Keep for myself, for those around me, for those involved… The ones who stir these conversations. The ones who are participating and guiding and initiating the change and growth and exploration. . I ask myself this question daily, when I show up to my journal, when I show up to my keyboard… . “What do I have to say?” “What do I need to share?” And every day, it’s the same. . You share it all. . These words that come through YOU, they’re not YOURS, but you’re responsible. You’re responsible. You’re given these words and you have to share. "But they’re not even mine?" I don’t care! You share it all… That’s what you get for being a messenger. . I’ve shared this process with you previously. The way it appears for me. CREATION. There are days when I sit at this screen and have to ask myself what it is I want to share. . What is it that I have to say? . And other days, or instances, often while I’m driving or having a different conversation or engaging with someone, or even at times while I’m sleeping, I’m woken, with words flying at me. Something that comes THROUGH me. I have no control. . Immediately, my fingers flying across the keyboard, across the page, into my phone if I have to, and though it’s from my experience, something I’ve been present to or perhaps even not, they’re not MY words. . The second they leave my fingers, they belong to YOU. To the collective consciousness. 👇 Continued below

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5 months ago

Tonight I had an epiphany. At first an inkling. And then, It hit me so hard, I could barely breathe. Lying on the mat. My first kundalini yoga class. I’ve been drawn to this style of yoga for some time now, I wasn’t sure why, but it hit me. And everything fell into place. . This pain, in my hips, in my sacrum, deep in my pelvis... of course the physical rehab I’ve done, hasn’t been the answer. Or course there’s nothing in the X-rays. Nothing in the MRIs. No relief following 12 week’s of strict physical rehab and rest. Of course. The pain isn’t physical. It’s not physical. It came to me tonight. Of course. It all made sense. The breath practice. Deep in the pelvis, the latent feminine energy in the base of the spine. The root lock, Mula Bandha. It all made sense. . I’ve seen it with my clients. The way when they release something emotional, their body releases. The way they’re completely locked up until sharing they’re having an affair. They cry and release and suddenly their body opens... . It landed for me. This pain, in my hip, it may have been physical, but it’s not now. It’s not. I’ve done the physical work, though it likely wasn’t required. This pain... it’s deeper than that. . It’s emotional. The timing coincides with my last relationship, with starting to weight train, but also with the things he said to me. The things that culminated around my sexuality, around being a woman, about the things I believe to be true, about fertility and maternal instinct and intimacy and the way I’ve used sex. All of it. . This pain isn’t physical. It’s emotional. It’s tied up in sexual trauma, in sexual shame and self judgement and the conversations I have with myself, that I dare not share, about men and my body and self worth... all of it. . It seems absurd to me that this hasn’t clicked for me previously. How obviously I see it with my clients, that these physical limitations aren’t actually physical... the mind controls every fucking thing... Huh. . Continued below 👇

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5 months ago

I posted a photo recently of a beautiful scene at the lake near my house - I mentioned in the post that I had had a rollercoaster week, but that times like this made it all feel worthwhile. . . I got home and sent a completely different photo to my fiancé, showing him how muddy the route had been, and that I had been lucky not to end up face planted in muck along the route! . . On reflection, I realised I had accidentally bought into the whole Insta-Perfect lifestyle - I had spoken about the rollercoaster, but I’d only shown the pretty shiny side of entrepreneurial life by sharing the gorgeous lake photo! . . So it feels important for me to share both of these photos now - to be completely transparent- because a life of working on your own terms, and your own hours, is of course very rewarding, but there is always a risk of ending up face down in the mud at your next turn!! . . I’m sure a lot of my fellow founders can empathise with me on this - it’s not a life for everyone, and it’s important you know what you’re getting into, as well as important for us all to share when times are tough. . . So don’t just share the shiny Insta-perfect photos - share the muddy ones too - let’s catch each other before we fall. . . ❤️ . . Oh, and if you’re going to run your own business, you’re going to need a pair of wellies! 😂

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5 months ago

Love this ❤️❤️❤️ “Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name. Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God.” ‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭13:15-16‬ ‭ #shareitall

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6 months ago

Tonight I was running on the beach and I was so present to how much I’m holding back. I’m scared to do the work I know I’m meant to be doing. I’m scared to share the things I really feel called to share. I’m in overwhelms of comparison-itis, with a part of my business that I KNOW isn’t aligned. I’m holding on because I fear being out of control. I fear not knowing. Honestly, I fear trusting. Trusting myself. Trusting that I can do this. Trusting that you‘ll feel aligned to what I’m called to create and called to share. Trusting that I’ll be okay. That I’ll be wanted. That I’ll be enough. It’s about self worth. All of it. Showing up as I’m called to be. As the message comes through me. As I know I’m born to be sharing. And so I keep on. I love what I’ve created. I love those aligned to me, I love those I’m supporting and empowering and those that lift and cheerlead me, And, I know I’m called for more. I know I’m holding back. I know I’m playing safe, playing how you know me, how I’ve KNOWN me, in a way I know how. And of course I feel challenged but I question what that’s about. Because really, REALLY, What I’m called to share. What I’m called to GIVE, scares the fuck out of me. It sends me into tunnels of doubt and second guessing and comparison and justification and fuck, all the things. And I’m scared. Throwing out pieces, trusting the release, KNOWING it’s creating space because really, REALLY it’s time. And I’m sitting on my hands. Again and again. Ugh. This human person game is an adventure. I’m so grateful for this work. To be able to question and explore and delve. To shine light. To see pieces unwrap and unravel and to know, KNOW it’s coming. In pieces. But landing. And I can’t fucking wait.

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6 months ago

What is a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP? I’ve been asking myself this question, observing those around me. . I’m currently faced with a situation in my life, that I’m feeling unsure of how to navigate. Exactly how to move forward. Well actually, that’s a lie, right? I believe we ALWAYS know exactly what do to and then fear, ‘what ifs’, self doubt, second guessing etc etc get in the way... However, I’ve been questioning whether what I ‘know’ to do is actually what I want to do or whether it’s my logical justification of what I think I ‘should’ do... I know, I’m an analytical, deep thinker 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’ll own that one. . Anyway, not the point of my post. I’ve discussed my situation with a few people. You’ve likely assumed this situation is about a man, obviously. So I’ve discussed said man with a few people in my life. However, what I realised this morning is that all of these friends and confidants of whom I’ve shared with, are in fact single, separating, or, in the kind of relationships that I would kindly term ‘dysfunctional’ or complicated, complex and intertwined (messy as fuck). . And so this started me thinking, who can I discuss this with, who has the kind of relationship I would want, to give me the ‘right’ advise. . As a side note, this behaviour is absolutely absurd to me as I write this, because I know EXACTLY where this exploration is going. I use writing to work through concepts and thought processes and it’s forever what brings me upon my conclusion and solution to every question of the universe... and my sense here so far is that actually, my answer is that it’s messy as fuck, and that’s ok. But I’ll continue this process for the moment. . So, it appears I’m not surrounded by relationships I’d want to mimic, and my history of relationships certainly does not have me trust that I know what the fuck I’m doing. . I’m not sure how much further I want to take this exploration of my interpretation and evaluation the relationships around me, and deeper than that, of human connection at it’s core. Let’s be honest, the concepts that I discuss, are never actually about me, it’s about the state of the universe and human interaction and connection. Cont. over on FB.. x

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John 14:16 “And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper (Comforter, Advocate, Intercessor, Counselor, Strengthener, Standby) to be with you forever. . . It’s hard to tell but we are a physical representation of the Holy Spirit! The one in the middle is us, but the ones around us always is the Holy Spirit. . . Just a simple reminder that we are never alone! Loved getting to represent this today. . . #holyspirit #neveralone #comforter #advocate #intercessor #counselor #strengthener #standby #spiritoftruth #glorytogod #rezchurch #churchlife #uponstage #stagelife #wearemighty #wearestrong

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