3 hours ago
THE BIGGEST DATING MISTAKE GUYS DON’T KNOW THEY MAKE
Many men struggle to find a great girlfriend. Why? Often, they’re making a big mistake and aren’t even aware of it. 😫
They spend way too much time and effort trying to “attract” women... Saying the “cool” line. Projecting a perfect image. I know I used to.
It doesn’t work.
Trying too hard to attract women is a one-way ticket to the friend zone. Don’t do it! ⚠️ ⚠️ ⚠️ Why? Because girls already like you.
They don’t want you to “dial up attraction.” That’s way too self-interested. Women want something else:
Here’s what I’ve learned, in my 15 years studying success with women and dating. It’s one of those epiphanies my clients experience.
If you try to attract, you’ll repel.
But if you try to connect, you’ll attract. 🧲
Women already like you! A lot of them do, anyway. You don’t need more “attraction moves.” And you DON’T need sketchy “pickup” tricks. You need to connect.
Don’t “attract.” Don’t go for conquest.
Go for connection. It’s less about YOU, and more about you and her. A win-win.
Again, if you try to attract, you’ll repel. But if you try to connect, you’ll attract. 💏
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