1 week ago
You know how when you’re feeling bad, more bad shit seems to keep comin’ into your life?... I do. 🙋🏼♀️ I work as a lifeguard in a pool where I get paid less than $1500/month, 8 months out of the year to watch siblings and adults drown each other, and to listen to people who would complain to me about anything and everything under the sun. 🙄
Now, I love listening to people and talking with them, but when you’re trying to watch a pool full of people and whoever you’re talking to is expecting your undivided attention, you know, those people who are one of the many forms of the “energy vampire”? Naaahh, I don’t need that 👋🏼 So, I started listening to podcasts and audios that would improve my mood and up my vibe while at work. I sit there with my Bluetooth speaker pouring out reminders of why there’s so much to be grateful for, and how you can unintentionally just ooze that positivity by just feeling good and by setting an example for people when they see that light in you. 💫
And I started to find the people who used to complain to me weren’t showing up when I was working anymore. Or if they did, we would share a brief smile and hello and then they would be on their merry way.
The morning regulars comment on how much they look forward to our chats and to seeing my smiling face in the morning. 😁 And the guests that come in tell me how smiley and zen-like I look.
While your energy, and the vibration you give off both have the ability to draw people and situations to you, they are also able to keep things that aren’t on your same frequency at bay.
Most people watch and judge every fucking move you make. NEVER let them keep you from doing what you feel passionate about. Post that caption and picture! Go on that solo trip! Leave your unfulfilling job! Invest in yourself and in doing what feels good! Build a business!
Stay around people that build you up and support you. You can literally just go ahead and ignore everyone else. Trust me, it’s fine! I give you permission. You’ll thank me when you stop giving one single fuck what everyone else is saying.
How do you block out energy vampires when their mucking about your vibration? 🧛🏻♀️🧛🏼♂️