2 weeks ago
When choosing a life partner... Don't be selfish. .
What most people think when seeking a life partner is, "someone that will love me, someone that will take care of me, someone that will respect me, someone that will help me accomplish my goals." Me, me, me, me... Absolutely selfishness. .
If I ask for your ideal partner essay right now, it will be full of selfishness. ... Pathetically, they also table such requests to God thinking He would answer. God does not answer selfish prayers. .
Praying amiss implies, praying selfishly. If God must answer your prayers, your prayer must be about how you can serve God better and bless humanity more. .
When seeking a life partner... Think God, think your family, think your friends even more think the society.
Ask God to help you find someone that will encourage you to serve him better. Someone that will wake you up every morning to pray, that will lead you out to preach the gospel, that will make you more relevant to the kingdom.
Then, ask God for someone that will take your family as his/hers. That will be there for your mum, or your dad. That will be a big sis/bro to your siblings.
Ask God for someone who will see your friends as friends and not threats. .
Then, ask God for someone that will help you accomplish your dreams.
Most people lose their life's Purpose at the wedding altar. Because they married an extremely selfish person, who wants them to be at their beckon call. .
This is the blueprint of the man/woman who God wants you to marry. .
Remember, don't be selfish about your choice of life partner, think God, think your family, think your friends, think your God given purpose. .
I Love Love, don't you too?
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