2 months ago
Problems with benefits
Your life is affected by the same problem over and over.... days, months, years and decades... You don’t want it to keep happening. It affects you by making your anxiety high, happiness low and relationships complicated and laden with drama.
Maybe it’s just the way you are?
Maybe it’s just how life is?
Maybe everything HAS to be hard?
Maybe you just need to know a bit more. Letting go of a problem you’ve had for a long time presents CONFLICT.
Because many ‘problems’ come with benefits. If you’re consistently unhappy or anxious people will be kinder, more understanding, helpful and well, loving, or at least a kind of love called sympathy and compassion.
So, if you stop having problems will you lose this kindness, this love?
In other words, if I stop behaving like this I will lose attention from others and that attention is currently meeting my need for love.
It’s a trap based in fear. You don’t believe you can have love without doing something to get it.
Be ill, unhappy, incapable, insecure, anxious... that’s how you get love right?
REAL LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL you already posses it, it already exists within you. You don’t need to do anything to receive love apart from be yourself KNOWING that you can have it, it’s available, it’s done, it’s yours.
Feel from your heart and you will find it.
And that’s what we are going to do!
The Transformation bootcamp
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