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“The Tower of Babel”
You meet someone. You connect deeply. You think “wow! This friend, interest, whatever is amazing! I know they’ll always be in my life.” You get carried away. Then all of a sudden, seemingly overnight, the connection drops. You can’t communicate like before. You don’t understand them. They don’t understand you. What does this mean?
The Tower of Babel as I like to call it(because the languages got completely confused as the tower was being built) in connections may be a sign that there is an imbalance within the relationship. Are you giving too much? Are they? Are you making this person an idol somehow in your life? Have you started to become inauthentic and change who you are or how you act to keep this person interested?
When communication breaks down and the connection drops, it may be a signal to do some introspection.