2 months ago
10 years with my best friend.
Long post Alert.
Please read to the end. My story may just Inspire someone.
Mum: Adebanke what are.you doing about getting a man?
Me: A man will come and get me not the other way round mummy 🙄
Me: Let it go mum. Marriage will happen when it is supposed to happen.
Dad: please stop putting her under pressure
Mum: I am not, just worried that she is not bothered and over 30years 😀😀 This was a typical conversation trend in my house 12years ago.
What my mum didn't know was that I learnt so hard not to be bothered, not to let society dictate my pace. My career was blooming, I was trying to build a future for my family when I eventually get one, saving and investing my salart and remaining focus. I was not ready for a boy but a man who will not be Intimidated by my status (I had a great Job, drive a good car and can buy anything I desire) I have come to realise that God ways are not our ways. So mum please let it go 😂😂 Eventually met the one who makes me happy and we were married 9months later.
No!! there was no long courtship. I told my mum God was preparing this man for me so hold up 😀😀. No it had not been a Jolly good ride, we strive to make it work because we love to see each other happy
Thank you for fighting the battles with me, cheering me on, going on doctor's appointments, through the IVFs, pills popping (I hate pills) and Injections. You have held my hand all the way.
Few months ago you observed that I don't have my crying bout anymore 😀😆. That is because you have taught me to trust God and his timing for another child, just like I trusted him for you.
Thank you Oluwagbenga for being my husband, my friend, my uber driver, my delivery guy, my praying partner, my cook, my shoulder to learn on.
God will bless and uplift in all the areas of your life.
Love you @nukrypenpo
Please say a prayer for him. He is a good man
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